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We Can't Be Like David: The Ultimate Cure for Our Goliaths
Even if you haven't been to a church, you've likely heard of the narrative of David and Goliath. It's one of the most famous biblical narratives of all time, but why is this narrative in particular so powerful, and so popular? As Malcolm Gladwell notes, its become a lasting metaphor for underdog victories, and as C.S. Lewis suggests, we don't just admire a beautiful story, we want to share in the narrative and the kind of victory it promises.
That's because this story exposes something we all wrestle with: fear. In this message, Reverend Donny Cho brings together what we've been learning in our Gospel Character series: the importance of our relationship with God, the destructive power of our pride, and the importance of humility. And today, we're going to bring it together by looking at how the gospel builds in us a unique combination of genuine humility and real, biblical courage.
At the end of 1 Samuel chapter 16, David was anointed king and the spirit of God floods into his life. But before he ever sat on a throne, he constantly faced hardship, trouble, and opposition. And yet, in Psalm 27, he can say, "evil men are all around me," and still not lose heart, because his deepest desire was to be in the presence of God.
This passage is important, because as we're living in the most anxious society in history, ruled by fear, this passage shows us the key to real courage. If you feel anxious or fearful, follow along as we look at what real courage is, why we lack it, and how we find it.
The story of David and Goliath is arguably the most famous narrative in the Bible—so enduring that Malcolm Gladwell wrote an entire book on its power as a metaphor for underdog victory. C.S. Lewis, in The Weight of Glory, helps us see why this story resonates so deeply: “We do not merely want to see beauty. We want to be united with the beauty we see.” This story endures because David’s victory touches a universal longing in us—the desire to see our deepest fears conquered. And in what many have called the most anxious society in history, this passage has much to teach us about courage: (1) what it is, (2) why we lack it, and (3) how we find it.
What Courage Is
In verses 1-3, the Philistines and Israelites stand on opposing hills in the Valley of Elah, with a valley between them—a valley of the shadow of death, marked by the horror of ancient warfare. Into that valley steps Goliath, the Philistine champion, a man built for war with overwhelming physical power and clear technological superiority. But Goliath represents much more than a formidable enemy. At a deeper level, his bronze scale armor would have made him appear serpent-like from a distance. Ever since the Garden of Eden—when the serpent tempted Adam and Eve and was then cursed by God—the Bible has carried a promise of enmity between the serpent and God’s people: one day, the seed of the woman would come and crush the serpent’s head once and for all. So throughout Scripture, serpent-like figures keep reappearing to deceive, oppress, and devour the people of God. Sometimes they look or sound like serpents. Sometimes their very name means “serpent.” Sometimes they embody the serpent’s pride and deceit. And now here stands Goliath, this serpent-like enemy, facing David, the anointed king—the seed of Eve. Goliath’s own words underscore the connection: “I’ll give your flesh to the birds of the air and the beasts of the field!” In other words: I will devour you.
In verse 10, Goliath issues his challenge: “This day I defy the ranks of Israel! Give me a man, and let us fight each other.” Upon hearing this, Saul and all Israel are dismayed and terrified. Saul is supposed to be the king, but he lacks the character needed to be kingly, and his army lacks the character needed to fight. Verse 16 tells us this continues for 40 days. In Scripture, the number 40 often marks a wilderness season—a time of testing, fear, and dependence. Israel wandered 40 years in the desert, grumbling over food and water because they were ruled by fear, when what they most needed was the presence of God. That same pattern is here again, causing Israel to live under a shadow of fear.
In verse 32, David declares, “Let no one lose heart.” His words in Hebrew are vivid: Let no one’s heart fall away, run away, or abandon him. He says this because Israel already has lost heart—especially Saul. Verse 24 tells us that whenever Goliath comes forward and speaks, the men of Israel flee in great fear. Why do they run? Because if they can get away, they will survive. They may appear selfish, but at least they will be safe. But biblical courage means doing what is right whether or not it keeps you safe. Sometimes we’re called to be unselfish regardless of the outcome. If we’re honest, however, most of us are far more like Israel than we want to admit. We let pressure, fear, and self-interest dictate our lives. For most of us, the greatest nightmare is not physical death, at least not in our setting. It is humiliation. Rejection. Loss of approval, income, career. Many of us feel this especially as parents. We’re afraid of losing ground at work because so much seems to rest on our ability to provide. So most of our energy goes there all day, and by the time we get home, we have little left to give to those around us. What’s happening? Fear and selfishness make us short-sighted. We fixate on short-term survival and gain because we’re consumed with protecting ourselves and our own. That’s Saul. That’s Israel. That’s us.
Why We Lack Courage
Hebrew Bible scholar Robert Alter points out that verses 4-7 devote an inordinate amount of text to describing Goliath’s size and armor—more than almost anywhere else in Scripture. The author is setting us up. He’s exposing our natural instinct to trust in skill, appearance, gifts, and outward strength. In the ancient world, that meant height and armor. We may think we’ve moved beyond that primitive mindset in our modern era, but we still operate by the same logic. We obsess over appearance and trust what looks impressive. That is exactly the mindset embodied by Goliath and Saul—both of whom failed miserably. Worldly courage is built on external advantage, because in the world, it is the “Goliaths” who get chosen, gain experience, and rise to lead.
All of this is set against David’s utterly unimpressive résumé. Goliath is from Gath, one of the five capital cities of the Philistine empire—a place of power, influence, and opportunity. David, by contrast, is from an obscure town. He’s the youngest of eight sons—the overlooked one, the runt of the litter. His older brothers looked the part. Eliab was tall—even the prophet Samuel initially thought, “Surely this is the LORD’s anointed.” But when the moment came, no one who looked the part had real courage. Worldly courage always collapses in the face of a greater Goliath. And yet we remain obsessed with externals.
Goliath is the embodiment of the natural way we try to find courage, and we see that in several ways.
First, worldly courage relies on gifts, skills, abilities, and other externals. Even in the church, we often give counsel that reinforces this. When a despairing friend says, I’m just not attractive enough, our response is often, No, you’re so beautiful! You’re so intelligent! You’re so strong! We still resort to relying on these things—even in how we try to encourage one another. That’s how Goliath operates. He trusts in his size, strength, and skill. Saul was a kind of “mini-Goliath” himself—tall, trained, and powerful. But that only exposes how fragile his confidence really is: I’m strong, capable, and impressive—until someone stronger, more capable, and more impressive appears. Because Saul’s confidence rested on his externals, the moment he met someone greater, he became afraid. That’s not biblical courage. And being humbled only because you’ve met someone greater isn’t true humility. In that way, our gifts, skills, and intelligence can actually become the greatest barriers to the humility that real gospel courage requires. That’s why Saul says to David in verse 33, “You are only a boy, and he has been a fighting man from his youth.” But in verses 34-37, David responds: When I was out in the field, I learned to kill things like lions and bears that were bigger and stronger. I learned to defend my sheep. The same LORD who delivered me from the paws of lions and bears will also deliver me from the hand of this Philistine. And yet Saul still can’t see beyond Goliath’s advantages and David’s limitations.
Second, worldly courage relies on armor. In verse 38, Saul puts his own tunic, armor, and helmet on David. But David takes them off, since he is not used to them. So he goes out vulnerable, carrying only his staff, his sling, and five stones from the stream. Imagine how weak and foolish he must have looked! In verse 43, Goliath asks, “Am I a dog, that you come at me with sticks?” We do the same thing. We think that if we’re clothed in the right “armor”, we’ll finally be secure. But the Bible says these things will only create the appearance of courage while quietly feeding our pride.
Third, armor provides a false confidence that we often mistake for real courage. In verse 42, Goliath looks David over and sizes him up. He sees no real danger in this fight. But that’s precisely the point: confidence built on externals and arrogance is not true courage. And when that kind of confidence fails, what do we do? We look for more armor. If one source of security fails, we search for another. We move from friendship to friendship, relationship to relationship, job to job, city to city, always chasing the thing that will finally make us feel secure. But worldly armor never provides real courage. Rather, real courage is rooted in a humility built on reality. The problem with worldly courage is that Goliath was blind to the one thing he needed in order to survive: a true view of reality. Because he trusted in externals, he overlooked the real danger before him. He assumed that his armor guaranteed victory. David, by contrast, knew he was walking into the valley of death, leaving him no option but to assume a posture of humility. Real fear—even when disproportionate—can wake you up to reality.
All of us have a Goliath-like fear—something that, if it happened, would feel like the end of everything. And how do we usually respond? By trying to become a better Goliath. We build our armor and look to these things to shield us from loneliness, failure, and meaninglessness. But that kind of courage will never enable you to do the right thing in the face of danger or pressure. If your confidence rests in your marriage, family, career, or wealth, you’ll merely be a slave to those things. You’ll do whatever it takes to protect them. A courage built on externals will always collapse like Saul’s did, because the real giants we face in life—aging, disease, loss, tragedy, and death—can’t be defeated by wealth, appearance, charm, intelligence, marriage, or family. None of those things can ultimately protect you. So don't disengage from your fears like Goliath did, because that kind of blindness leaves you unprepared for reality when it finally hits you. What you need is something greater than the giants—something big enough to overwhelm your fears and strong enough to steady you in the face of them.
Question 1:
What most moves, challenges, or encourages you from this section? Why do you think it impacts you so personally?
How We Find Courage
Where did David get that kind of courage? In verses 45-47, he says, “You come against me with sword and spear and javelin, but I come against you in the name of the LORD Almighty.” David’s courage came from the LORD’s presence. This is where we can easily misread the passage. Many of us were taught: Be like David. Trust God like David. Obey like David. Then you can defeat the giants in your life. But this can easily become a religious version of trying to be Goliath. If you think, If I just trust, obey, and do enough, then God will protect me, you’re still relying on yourself. God simply becomes your armor bearer. Your obedience becomes your armor. Your goodness becomes your shield. So you may think you’re becoming like David, when in reality you’re becoming more like Goliath. Many in the church do exactly that—they think they’re growing in faith, but they’re really growing in spiritual self-reliance. If things go well, it feeds your pride: I trusted, I obeyed, I succeeded. If things go poorly, it breeds resentment: I trusted you, and you failed me. This passage isn’t calling you to use God to become stronger; rather, it’s calling you to find your courage in God himself.
Consider Jesus, the most obedient person who ever lived. No one trusted or obeyed God like Jesus. But what did he receive? The cross. So the lesson of this passage can’t be, Be like David and you’ll win. In fact, one of the biggest mistakes we can make with this story is to assume that we are David. We are not. We’re Saul. We’re the army. We’re David’s brothers. We are fearful people who keep clothing ourselves with externals. We’re ruled by fear—of disapproval, suffering, loss, and defeat. What we need is not first a model, but a substitute. We need someone to go down into the valley for us. We need someone greater than our giants to overcome what we cannot. That’s what David becomes for Israel. In the ancient world, a champion could fight on behalf of the whole people. His victory became their victory; his defeat became their defeat. As Israel’s substitute, David brings God’s people to victory through his weakness, because the LORD fights for him. But we have an even greater champion, substitute, and representative.
Jesus is the true and better David. He goes where we cannot go, faces what we cannot face, and wins for his people what they could never win for themselves. David enters the valley of the shadow of death; Jesus goes into the ultimate valley and battles death itself—and he wins. David saves his people at the risk of his life. Jesus saves his people at the cost of his life. David wins by crushing Goliath. Jesus wins by being crushed. On the cross, he cries, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” The wrath of God is pouring out on him as the penalty for our sins and weakness, because we are cowards who could not enter the valley. David fought with the presence of God and won, but Jesus endures the cross completely alone and forsaken. He experiences the ultimate nightmare: to suffer and die apart from his Father. No one steps in to fight for him. He has no shield bearer, no armor bearer, no armor. He experiences the ultimate defeat, the ultimate hell—total aloneness under the wrath of God. In the Garden of Gethsemane, knowing what’s about to happen, he says, “My soul is troubled to the point of death.” He could have run. He could have been selfish and still stayed alive. But he goes all the way—from the garden to the cross—with perfect courage. He is our champion. He is our finisher. And when he cries, “It is finished,” he is declaring that he has done everything necessary to bring victory to his people.
When David struck Goliath and crushed his head, he was acting as the seed of the woman, fulfilling the promise that one day the serpent’s head would be crushed. In verse 51, David takes Goliath’s own sword and cuts off his head. He uses the enemy’s greatest weapon to destroy him. Jesus does the same at the cross, using Satan’s greatest weapon—death itself—to defeat death once and for all. At Golgotha—also known as the “place of the skull”—Christ crushes the ultimate serpent. As John Owen famously said, this is the death of death in the death of Christ. Because he fought, we share in his victory. Because he died, we died. Because he rose, we rise with him. Because he won, we win. Our story is united to his. We are in union with Christ, which is the true and lasting source of our courage.
Look at the obedience of Jesus, the sacrificial courage of Jesus, the boldness of Jesus. When you know that the end of your story is victory—that even beyond death itself there is life—then you can feel afraid and still be bold. You can suffer and still obey. Because Jesus defeated the ultimate giant—the only enemy who could truly destroy you—every other giant is now a lesser giant. They may still feel enormous, but they cannot separate you from God. They cannot undo what Christ has done. They cannot be greater than what he has already overcome. So don’t lose heart. You can face the fears in your life and still do what honors God, because the ultimate victory has already been won. As Hebrews 12 says, “Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith.” Look to Christ. Be united to him. There you will find the courage you need.
Question 2A:
What would it look like, specifically, to face one of your fears with biblical, Christ-centered courage and humility rather than with worldly armor?
Question 2B:
In what ways does Jesus’ sacrifice offer you a deeper, steadier courage than the false security of worldly armor ever could?
